In this era of pretentious living, we fake smile, laughter, words, feelings and even relationships too. All the relationships are based on some lies that we say to the other person and some lies that we say to ourselves. But most importantly, these days there is fakism in love relationships too. This thought is quiet disturbing for me, and I hope it is equally disturbing for everyone in long run.
There are many affairs that we see around in schools, colleges and offices. Everyone has one boyfriend/girlfriend. Still we see thousands of people registering on matrimonial sites for an arranged marriage. Do you know the reason why? Why affairs are not turning into a lifetime commitment? Why lovers spend years of time with each other but could not make it happen? Why love has a very short life span?
There are many affairs that we see around in schools, colleges and offices. Everyone has one boyfriend/girlfriend. Still we see thousands of people registering on matrimonial sites for an arranged marriage. Do you know the reason why? Why affairs are not turning into a lifetime commitment? Why lovers spend years of time with each other but could not make it happen? Why love has a very short life span?
The fact is that there is no term called ‘LOVE’ that exists in these relationships. They are based on emotional, mental, physical, social or monetary needs and the biggest lie that both of them say to themselves and to each other i.e. ‘they love each other’. Love is about fighting for each other till the last breath. Love is about standing with each other in all the ups and downs. Love is about being passionate and focussed for one commitment. See the eternal love couples Heer-Ranjha, Romeo-Juliet, Soni-Mahiwal and you will realize what love is.
So it’s time to understand the true meaning of ‘Love’ and free yourself from the fake relationship. Think and analyze - can you do the same sacrifices that Romeo-Juliet has done for each other? Or do you see yourself at the position of Bhagat Singh who has sacrificed his life for his dulhan called ‘Azaadi’? If the answer is ‘yes’ then you are in a true love, and if the answer is ‘no’ rethink about your relationship. Say the truth to yourself and to the person you are in relationship with. Hope it will save you and them from the pain. If any one of you is serious it is important to stop this relationship at the right time and in the right manner.
Happy Independence Day!
So it’s time to understand the true meaning of ‘Love’ and free yourself from the fake relationship. Think and analyze - can you do the same sacrifices that Romeo-Juliet has done for each other? Or do you see yourself at the position of Bhagat Singh who has sacrificed his life for his dulhan called ‘Azaadi’? If the answer is ‘yes’ then you are in a true love, and if the answer is ‘no’ rethink about your relationship. Say the truth to yourself and to the person you are in relationship with. Hope it will save you and them from the pain. If any one of you is serious it is important to stop this relationship at the right time and in the right manner.
Happy Independence Day!
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