How to make the ‘Love’ constructive?

‘Love’ is such a beautiful feeling and has so many different forms in different relationships but here I am talking about the girlfriend-boyfriend love.

If you are having an affair or you are looking for someone to fall in love with or you are hurt with the broken relationship or you are dumped by the person you loved selflessly, here are few tips to make your ‘love’ constructive for yourself –

· First thing, clear the notion that love is about others, it is firstly about oneself. If you love yourself, then only you can love the other person, as you cannot give something that you don’t have. If some day a very pretty girl/ handsome boy come to you and ask for a buffalo, will you be able to give..? No na...because you do not have one. Same is the case with love. So first love yourself and make yourself lovable for others. Be caring, gentle and loving to oneself.

· Second thing, loving surely means accepting the person with positives and negatives in all the manner but it doesn't mean that you should stop putting efforts towards improving the person. Mother also loves the child but she keeps yelling on mistakes and no repulsion can make her discontinue the process of improving her child. So should be the case in every love story. The process of improvement should never be paused or discontinued from both the sides and acceptance also means taking the advice positively, if the love is genuine.

· Third thing, love is the biggest motivation to live and lover should be the biggest motivator to inspire you in every sphere of life. Life is not just about loving; it is about growing, improving, fulfilling dreams and seeing oneself where you ever wished to. So lover should be the one who can make you excel in career, who can support you in ups & downs of life, who can make you better person in every relation you possess and who can make you responsible in all the roles you play. And trust me it is possible.

· Fourth thing, be creative in expressing your love. Love is the best inspiration for any artist and yes, there is hidden artist in every person (if you don’t know your talent, love is the guide to explore it). Make the best use of your talent in making your love impress and it will be helpful in improving your skills and quality of life side by side.

· Last but not the least, if you are hurt and have broken relationship or got dumped, be positive and take this as a challenge. It is important to understand that something went wrong from your side too. You might be lacking at expressing the love & care, giving time, spending money, gifting, motivating for improvement, choosing the right person, analyzing or understanding in various aspects, and it’s time to improve yourself in that area where you lack. This broken relation is not the end of life; it is the start of a new and better life with improved you.

Make the ‘LOVE’ constructive rather than being Majnu and leaving everything for love. Love exists where Life flourish and it fades where Life stagnates. Hope these ideas will be helpful in making the relationship better & practical and they will also guide in choosing the right person who can really be a Constructive Lover. The best couple creates two successful and good individuals.

NiAmos - My Birth Story

Hey!

Here I am sharing the most beautiful love story on earth that has given birth to me. Like other love stories it has hero, heroin, ups & downs, commitment and togetherness but not a happy ending. It has witnessed many phases and my birth is the new beginning…

Let me introduce you to the characters first –

Hero – Brands of the world (My Father – always trying to please)

Heroin – Customers (My Mother – always want more and more)
Me – IoTDevice (NiAmos – a loving kid)

Just the way you love to hear about your parents love story and share it proudly with everyone, I love it too…My father has loved my mother unconditionally all his life and his ultimate aim has always been to woo her and please her by all the possible means. In those initial days of their story, he was a bit shy to propose her directly and thus, took the help of written communication (newspapers and magazines). Don’t you think letters are so romantic…Still I wish to read them all again and again. Words do play magic and my mother couldn't escape from the charm. She fell in love with him and used to wait for his letters every morning eagerly but somehow this became a routine and no more a thrill…

Then, my father decided to find out more means. He observed her keenly when she was busy doing her various daily works and found that radio is her companion in every task she do. This has clicked the idea of broadcasting the message for her on radio. It was so beautiful and amazing. She was elated to hear that…No woman (customer) can resist gifts and surprises. They are natural stimulants. And my father has used them amazingly in making her move out in the chase of those special attractions. After all, gifts are part and parcel in every love story.

But soon the technology upgraded and television took over radio in her life. It became even more challenging for him to grab attention, convey message and play the magic to bring her in action. Television demands concentration of both the senses (i.e. eyes and ears). Though my father was not good at it but love makes man do anything and everything. Somehow with the help of experts he successfully captivated her and still doing it. In every 10 minutes he reminds her that ‘he is missing her’. Love is felt in silence too but still it is important to express and keep reminding and making each other feel special.

So now, came the turn of my mother to reveal the love and confess it in front of the world. With the emergence of social media, she got the right platform to admit. And without giving a second thought she bluntly expressed her love for my dad. Isn't it sweet! I love her a lot for being so loving and loyal. Finally this gesture of her took the relationship to the next level. They started spending more time together. They shared more likings and fun moments. They learned many lessons of life. But gradually, all this became monotonous.

Now was the time when my father realized that just surprising is not enough. She deserves to be treated like a queen and then, he thought of me. I am ‘NiAmos’, a promise of my parents to each other that ‘we will love’. I will give them happiness, I will keep them in touch, I will make them spend time together and moreover, I will make them think of each other more often than they used to.

I am the new chapter in their life, just the way you must be in your parents' life. Hope you will play your role perfectly!

Salute to Narendra Modi

Finally a day came when the leader of masses is going to be a Prime Minister...a day when people of country unitedly selected one person without giving any chance for alliance...a day when we all can really expect something good to happen in our country...a day when we can proudly say that a strong leader represents our country internationally, a day when we can expect to have strict security on our borders...a day when our nation got freedom from monarchy of Gandhi family...a day when we all can celebrate the joy of democracy!

Congratulations to all the citizens of India on this historical day!

This tattoo created by me is just an expression of my happiness...Hope 'achchhe din aane wale hain'.
#CongratsNaMo

Happy Mother's Day

Tribute to Mother Teresa on the occasion of International Mother's Day by Barkhastic! Hope every human being follow the path of humanity and all the orphans get mother.

Happy Mother's Day!

Never before things on Twitter to Welcome Super Star Rajinikanth!

Rajinikanth, the super star is known for his supernatural powers worldwide. After countless jokes, infinite rumors and unique website, Rajnikanth is here on Twitter. See the list of never before things to welcome Rajnikanth on Twitter –

·        First Verification, then Account…It is possible with Rajinikanth only.

·        62000+ followers in an hour…What else you want for a movie promotion?

·        An account that mentions more than 100 unique tweeples in an hour gets barred by twitter jail. But Rajinikanth has tweeted 2000+ tweets in an hour. Isn’t it magical?

·        Just one tweet and become talk of the town on all the social channels…even Facebook and Google+ are flooded. Does anyone have more fans than him?

·        An account started with ‘zero’ following. Even Twitter realized that no one can precede Rajinikanth.

·        Even Twitter is welcoming Rajinikanth with a trend ‘Welcome to Twitter’

Waiting to see more unseen on twitter...as Rajinikanth is here!

World Laughter Day

On the occasion of World Laughter Day this is a tribute to Mr. Beans from Barkhastic! #MrBeans #WorldLaughterDay #Laughter #Tattoo #Tattoos #face #Expressions #art #creativity #penart #InkArt #Barkhastic #MadeByMe #Tribute

One Creation a Day

The happiness you are seeking for,

the success you are praying for,

the love you are longing for,

is just one creation away from you…

I believe in it and thus, ‘one creation a day’ defines my ideology of life. A day without creation is a day, wasted. Having my inclination towards creativity is something that keeps me motivated towards my ideology. I don’t know how many of you agree to it but every ‘creation’ gives us a reason for ‘celebration’…be it a delicious dish prepared in kitchen or a piece of art created on canvas.  You don’t need to have extra ordinary skills to create. All you have to do is to explore your interest and thus, give meaning to your life.

Every ‘Creation’ is a complete package that gives me –

Confidence – Every time I create something, I see my imaginations taking shape, my talent getting cultivated and the hidden skills coming in light. It gives me confidence on myself. It’s a secret intimation conveyed by my heart to my mind that ‘yes I can do it’.

Skills – Skills cannot be judged without scrutinizing the competency. While creating new things I can smell my potential and efficacy at various tasks. Along with polishing my skills, it also helps me in developing new skills. In other words, Creation is representation of your skills.

Appreciation – The best part attached with every creation is that, it is neither good nor bad. Each individual has different perspective for things, and definitely there are people with like thinking who will admire the creation whole heartedly. So just believe in creating whatever your heart says and get ready to hear applauds!

Happiness – See your mother and you will understand how a creation can become the biggest happiness. She bears all the pain for nine months to create you. Similarly, every creation is your baby and whatever it brings be it appreciation or criticism, you will be proud to embrace it. It is the reason of happiness and self contentment. Adding taste of happiness in your life depends completely on you. You can crib for the things that you do not have or you can choose to create some, and be happy.

Experience – Creating new things is to touch the new horizons and explore oneself. It’s the process that makes you undergo unique experiences every time. The course may not be easy but it will be full of learning for sure.

Great people have ideology to lead their life and ordinary people have situations. Decide what your guiding light is, and give meaning to your life. I am enjoying the fruit of ‘creation’ with all my senses. You can also choose to create a piece of music, story, art, painting, delicious dish, or anything you like. Are you ready to create something magnificent and add beauty to the world?

5 Reasons Why Arvind Kejriwal Deserves a Slap

“An auto rickshaw driver allegedly slapped AAP Chief Arvind Kejriwal in north west Delhi #SlappedAgain”. This news is all over media and everyone is seeking the answer that why this is repeatedly happening with Kejriwal. So here I am giving my reasons to slap him -

Patience – Indians are patient breed and since 1947, they were quietly observing, listening and experiencing the political scandals or rather watching the drama of national leaders be it Indira Gandhi, Narsimha Rao or Manmohan Singh (to name a few). They never raised a voice on mass level against the government and kept themselves absorbed in earning livelihood. For the first time after freedom, Anna enraged the nation at Ramleela Maidan and Arvind Kejriwal emerged as a well educated and informed ‘Hero of the Nation’. He made India give up the patience and protest on streets.

Trust – Though many a time incidents like Kargil War, Babri Riots, Mumbai Attack provoked citizens to speak against the government but nobody actually had guts to stand against the traditional parties. Politicians successfully reserved the trust of citizens with few melodramatic speeches. Kejriwal is the first leader who exposed the faces never before and made people doubt on every leader.

Hope – Being theist, we Indians have innate quality of having faith and hope. We are optimistic and we believe that things will change with time. On every speech in history that said ‘next time we will take strict action against Pakistan’ gave us hope and we believed the leaders blindly. All the corruption, scandals, riots, wars, disrespect of nation internationally was ignored by the citizens with a hope that someday we will be standing among developed nation or super powers, and everything will be changed. But Arvind Kejriwal has shaken this hope by showing the other side of India.

Confidence – The confidence on our own capabilities motivated us to earn and live respectfully without demanding anything from the poor government. Even the basic infrastructure is missing in the nation but we created our own comfort zone with our own efforts. This confidence gave us the feeling of pride and to meet the requirements we happily we became part of brain drain (the biggest scandal of Human Resource). However, Kejriwal has opened the billions of eyes by unveiling the details of Swiss Bank Accounts. We are no more confident enough to earn and stuff the corrupt politicians’ accounts.

Satisfaction – We were satisfied with ‘Roti, Kapda aur Makaan’ and never urged for more, not at least from the government who is taking around 40-60% of our earnings in different forms of taxes. Satisfaction is the base of our upbringing. But Kejriwal has abducted the peaceful sleep from citizens and whole nation is awake all these days to map the future.

Whole Nation has joined hands with Arvind Kejriwal in the revolution, especially youth. We can see the influence on social channels clearly. People invested their patience, trust, hope, confidence and satisfaction in AAP Party, in Kejriwal’s vision but he failed to come upto the expectations when selected as a CM of Capital of India, Delhi. He irresponsibly resigned from the post and never gave a genuine reason to believe.

People are now impatient, doubtful, hopeless, pessimistic and disappointed with everything around. This slap was the reciprocation of what Arvind Kejriwal has done with the people of nation.

Main Tera Neta

Politics is a major event for any democratic country especially for a country like India which has more than 1.2 billion diverse population. Election 2014 is truly a release of two big budget films, one with Narendra Modi (an established superstar) and another with Rahul Gandhi (a debut) as cast, and complete nation is looking upto the media for minutiae. Thus, giving a room for promotions and advertising.

Now, as we all know every big budget movie invests heavily on promotion and the success at box office greatly depends on it, both the parties i.e. BJP & Congress are powerfully advertising themselves on every media be it newspapers, hoardings, banners, tv commercials, radio jingles or digital media. Few months back it was in news that Rahul Gandhi has spent over Rs. 500 crores for his image makeover, and being a senior in the industry Narendra Modi has started the promotion far before with a campaign ‘NaMo for PM’. So, how does it matter? Is it affecting the country? Are people taking them seriously? Do facts and statistics shown in ads really create impact?

Well the fact is they really do…Knowingly-unknowingly, consciously-unconsciously, actively-inactively people are getting influenced and politics is becoming the hot topic everywhere be it chaupal or twitter. US Election is a clear example of excellent promotion by Barack Obama. With smart phone in every other hand, people are becoming aware and active citizens and digital media is contributing a lot in image building of politicians. So, this time I am seeing a big political war of words on all the social channels and somehow becoming a part of it. There is no group on Whats App which is spared of Political Jokes. In fact Google has also introduced a platform to take a political pledge.

So, NaMo & RaGa both are loudly portraying themselves as ‘Main Tera Neta’ and complete nation is in the awe of their advertising and promotion. I am yet unable to decide ‘My Neta’, ‘My Hero’, ‘My PM Choice’ for this session…Just hoping to see both of them on Comedy Nights with Kapil for promotion before election, it might help me in taking a decision before going to polling booth. :p